Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Amazing Jamie!!

Meet my daughter, The Nurse!!


When I first met Jamie, she was.... let's see... 8 maybe 9? (I'm never good with that sort of thing.. I want to say 3rd grade).. She looked EXACTLY like her dad... But where he is calm, she was not... she bounced.. not like regular kids, she was up and down and back and forth and hopped from one leg to another, skipped everywhere she went and never, I mean NEVER held still... Do you remember that song by Van Halen, "Jamie's Crying"...? We used to change the part that says "Jamie's crying" to "Jamie's whining"... partly to tease, but also because, while she was not a brat, she had the most amazing way to get her dad to do whatever she wanted, which included a bit of a whine.. She and Aaron visited us on weekends, I couldn't wait for the kids to arrive so that I could listen to Jamie talk endlessly about was happening in school, with her friends, and with the smelly boys... She never held back and enjoyed filling us in on all her activities.. Back then she wanted to be a veterinarian and live in a Garfield shaped house and have about a million kitties..

Fast forward to high school... An amazing student, serious about school and making super grades.. When faced with a make you or break you situation, Jamie threw out the whining and took all that energy and turned it into ambition, drive, and a dedication rarely seen in kids today. I'm sure that was partly due to some pretty stellar parenting and support by Steve and Carole... (they are amazing parents). But really, it was mostly just her.... blowing us away with every decision she would make..

Before our precious Adrienne even arrived, Jamie had a plan, a good plan and she was well on her way to reaching her goals. She earned her CNA certificate, and got a job. She continued to do well in school. She took enough classes in high school to have a good head start in college. She took classes every semester getting herself ready to join a nursing program and become a Registered Nurse.

Oh sure, there were doting grandparents available to make her life easier, but Jamie was always determined to take as little as possible from us. She worked, went to school and somehow made sure Adrienne was fed, cleaned, loved, played with and ALWAYS a good 10 feet from the nearest germ. She never missed an opportunity to make a memory with her or make sure she had exactly what she needed. She got an apartment when she could, bought herself a car, paid for daycare, even began picking up her own tuition, and never whined for even an instant.

It's been a long six years of college for Jaime, with up's and down's and both good and hard times. Her life didn't always allow for full time everything, so some semesters she was only able to take a class or two, but she never gave up and finally, just last month, graduated from Davis Applied Technology College with a degree in nursing from Weber State. Carole, Steve and I simply couldn't be more proud of this gal and what she has accomplished. She never questioned her decisions and fought for what she believed was right for her and Adrienne. She is a wonderful student, daughter, mother, and I have no doubt she will be a fabulous nurse.














One last note.... She took her NCLEX exam last week and of course passed with flying colors... :-)


Congratulations Jamie on the most AMAZING job ever!!

And....

Congratulations PCMC for getting what I'm sure will be the most AMAZING nurse ever!!
(that's a mighty big statement... I know some awesome nurses at PCMC...)



J.... From your moms and your dad and your kid... You deserve everything you have worked so hard for. Thanks for being simply the best!! We love you so much!!


Tuesday, January 12, 2010

HAPPY GOTCHA DAY!!


Happy Gotcha Day to our sweet Jesse!!

It was 6 years ago today when Jess was just 2-1/2 years old, we took him in our arms and never had to let him go!!

We love you so much Jesse... Thanks for making our lives complete!!

Mom and Dad...

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Christmas 2009

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Merry Christmas family and friends.

We had a great holiday at the Fontenot house. However, it was our first year without our big kids and granddaughter to visit with, and our first year without snow.. so it was a bit difficult to maintain the Christmas spirit like I usually do, but it was also a great opportunity to do something a bit different, and I think it made all the difference...

We decided (for a number of reasons) to simplify our entire Christmas experience.. I did only a small about of baking, our children definitely got much less in their stockings and we decided to give even more than usual. Even Jesse did his own good works and I was very proud of him. Steve and I decided to not exchange gifts at all, which was a first but ended up feeling really good. I loved my Christmas and everything about it.. I think we will definitely start some new traditions based on this year.. (If you want to know more about what we did to give as a family, you can click the link about Markelle's gift at the top of this)

Having said all that, we didn't exactly cancel Christmas.. Santa still came and Jesse was spoiled by his grandparents.. There were still plenty of presents to go around. I think at the top of the list is the new addition to our family.... Meet Izzy, our mutt. Jesse's only wish was for a puppy of his own... so that's what Steve and I got for him. He was blown away and even burst into tears when he saw her. We all love her and I think she will be a good dog.. Jesse is going to be a great person for her and I think they will be forever friends. I'm sure Jesse will remember this holiday for the rest of his life...

This really has been a year full of blessings with Jesse's good health, Heidi's new found love and marriage, our daughter Jamie's graduation from college (which will soon be it's own post... so check back) as well as the blessing of Steve's good job. We are also looking forward to a visit from our son Aaron next week, which couldn't make us happier. So even though we miss our family and friends like crazy this time of year, we still have a lot to be happy about and that's what we are focusing on.

Thank you for all your love and support this year, we simply couldn't do it without you..

Wishing you all the best holiday season and the happiest new year..

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

What are you thankful for?

The holidays are upon us again and as usual, I begin to get all sappy and emotional about all the things in my life that I have to be thankful for. I've decided to make a list.. not that it covers everything... but just highlights a few..

I'm Thankful For...

1. Steve ~ who even after 13 years of marriage, still loves me as much as when we started dating, and for whatever reason seems to "get" me no matter what crazy idea I'm focused on.

2. 3 beautiful, healthy, smart, amazing children and one perfect granddaughter ~ These people fill my heart with so much joy and pride I'm sometimes afraid it might explode.

3. Jamie, Amy, Heidi and Mikalie ~ for being my people, my role models, my hero's. For teaching me about friendship and commitment, and for making me laugh.

4. My parents ~ for loving me so much and wanting to be with me. For offering every day in every way to make my life easier.

5. Carole ~ for showing me what real acceptance looks like and for her part in making Jamie and Aaron who they are today. And for loving my Jesse so much... :0)

6. My family and Steve's family ~ who have shown me that no matter how far away we move they are always around to support me.

7. My far away friends ~ who prove all the time that family is of the heart and standing by me as if I was one of their own.

8. My sweet niece Sarah ~ who puts a smile on my face and reminds me daily that life is really about family, friends, having fun, doing good things for others and holding firm to your beliefs. Nothing else really matters.

9. Matthew Dodd ~ for filling some huge holes in the hearts of people I love.

10. Charitable giving and the ability to do it.

11. Lumber Products ~ for choosing Steve when I'm sure the decisions were tough ones this year.

12. Whole foods, my new hip, exercise and time to sleep. These things keep me happy and healthy.

13. My Church

14. Meds, doctors, nurses, and great facilities to keep people healthy and to offer lasting support when things don't work out like we'd hope.

15. Markelle, her donor, Jesse's donor, Darian and God ~ for teaching me that no matter how big or how small we are, we have the ability to change lives and leave a lasting imprint in the hearts of strangers.

What are you thankful for... I'd love to hear your list..

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